Every mistress has her own style and attitude. It is important to have respect for the slave as a human being. The submissive is choosing to submit to the domme and should have the peace of mind that his needs and safety will be cared for. With power comes responsibility and those who are in it only to make "easy" money, often wonder why they are not welcomed into the bdsm community with open arms.
You rates are not as high as less equipped or experienced dominas, why is that?
My submissives, who have previously had the misfortune, have told me that many who are not established feel that a over charging adds to their credibility, which should speak for itself. They know you won't return so they get what they can the first time. Most reputable mistresses try to uphold a certain standard, and may appear critical of what are often referred to as "hookers with whips". My slaves are are welcome to leave a gratuity and they often do in reciprocation for how generous I can be with my time, energy and creativity.
Do you ever have sex with slaves/clients?
No, the submissive is my plaything, my property to do with as a wish and as such, would not be allowed to penetrate me in any way as that could compromise the power dynamic of the session and the professional mistress/slave relationship. On the other hand, your body and mind belong to me and may be penetrated, violated, corrupted, tormented and abused when it pleases me. Tease and denial, delayed climax, guided masturbation, chastity training, cuckolding fantasies, dildo play and forced milking are only a few of my favourite ways to torment my property. If I am compelled by your submission, and feel you have earned your release then you will most certainly squirm for my amusement, as a reminder of who ultimately controls your pleasure and torment.
What is expected of the client/slave?
You will arrive within 5 minutes of the time agreed upon. You will not show up 20 minutes early and interrupt another session, phone call or webcam training. Lateness may be excused with a courtesy phone call. You will bring the correct tribute. Longer sessions may be booked upon arrival if time is available. You will be clean, inside and out, which may include an enema. Call if you are late or need to cancel.
Do you allow oral servitude?
While the vagina and eyes are self cleaning, the mouth is a breeding ground for bacteria and in no way worthy of touching my silky privates. I have no interest in catching sexually transmitted diseases from oral sex/servitude. Of course you may beg to change my mind and you may be taunted mercilessly with the possibility of pleasing me but the truth is that I believe a slave's place is beneath my feet and under my ass if he is so lucky to be in my presence at all. I enjoy the cruelty of erotic teasing as well as smothering and foot adoration however body worship is strictly at my discretion. Harassment will not be tolerated.
What do you get out of being a dominatrix?
It is as much an escape for me as it is for my slaves. A place where I express the power of my female sexuality and another side of myself that only my submissives get to see. As a domme, my creativity and intellect are appreciated, and stimulated rather than repressed and that has helped me to grow and evolve in all aspects of my life. Being worshipped and tributed for being a creative, sensual, intelligent, sadistic and beautiful woman can be quite fulfilling.
Are you a 24/7 lifestyle dom?
It's a nice thought and when I am able to, I would enjoy a good sissy maid and houseboy but they would have to be genuinely service oriented and not someone looking to lick my toilet and jerk off after. As far as lifestyle goes, I have always been an genuine alpha cuckold queen. Shopping with my sissies and and dinner with a slave are things I do enjoy on occasion. I am not interested in spending my free time indulging selfish time wasters with nothing useful to offer. I have a life outside bdsm as I am sure you do. You may apply here.
Is this just a job or do you enjoy it?
I am fortunate enough to love my work . I don't take caring for the needs of my slaves lightly. I enrich their lives as they do mine. I am not here for the quick thrill or fast buck but rather to perfect my art.
Why do dommes charge so much when there is no sex involved?
Seriously? The play space could otherwise be rented for $800/month. Toys must be replaced from wear and tear and frequent sterilization. Gloves, condoms, lube and other supplies must always be on hand. Each session is followed by an hour of intensive clean up and disinfecting of all items and surfaces . Violet wand, PES electrical toys and a custom sybian are all very expensive items. There is sexy but costly fetish wear such as corsets, leather, pvc, uniforms and don't forget the shoes and boots. We have the cost of advertising, website, photography, and the time involved as well as updating dungeon furniture, toy collection and implements.
What safety precautions do you take?
You are given a safe word to use. The mistress is mindful of any medical conditions which you should disclose prior to play. ALL items and surfaces used are sanitized after each session. Toys are covered AND sterilized. Gloves, condoms and hand sanitizer are always used. There is system wide antiviral/antibacterial air purification and an additional unit in the dungeon. We are selective and don't do the high volume of a sex establishment nor do we engage in high risk activities.
Are you on any escort review boards?
First of all, you are the submissive and I am the one who critiques your performance so remember your place. Secondly, I am not an escort. Those of you who are blown away by a session and need to share may so with discretion and good taste. If reading a review puts your novice mind at ease then by all means do so. While we do not currently pay to advertise on any review boards, you may find many detailed testimonials at edmontondominatrix.biz
How to I get off your shit list?
Those of you who have been banished from the dungeon for 1. failing to follow instructions 2. multiple cancellations or 3. not showing up at the designated time may once again have the opportunity to experience our erotic dominance. If your number is blocked, you may send a grovelling email explaining why you should be allowed in our presence and a tribute to show your sincerity. Should we feel motivated by your gesture, you will be granted an opportunity to prove yourself. We may require a deposit or that your session be prepaid at least one day in advance.