1. Be flexible. The best match for you, may not be able to fit in your schedule.
2. Be reliable. Cancelling plans leaves others disappointed and they may not take a chance on you again.
3. Keep expectations realistic. Mature are usually reliable. Younger may get nervous and cancel or ghost completely. Many are still struggling with self acceptance. Don't be too surprised if they panic and bail or jerk off to the idea and lose interest. You will have to put more time into searching, if you are picky about certain things.
4. Try to match on interests. Plan something fun for everyone so it's not all about you.
5. Bottoms outnumbers tops in the bdsm world. Don't expect subs to show up and want to top you without having their turn.
6. One domme for every two subs is a good ratio, so everyone gets enough attention.
7. Have lots of clean toys ready and plenty of condoms.
8. Space arrivals 10-15 min apart so they can get ready and aren't tripping over each other.
9. Plan your events ahead of time but always be prepared for detours.
10. Find creative ways for the subs to interact and have some idea on how you want to finish with each sub.
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